Do we “fall for” looks, character or money?

Don’t miss this article about what attracts women and what men find appealing on women!

Choosing a partner in youth is based on physical attributes, but with age they are pushed into the background. But looks are still very important. (jlp)

He’s good-looking, but why?

It’s known that it’s not that important if a man is handsome or not. Women are attracted by a nice and even figure and face because it pleases their aesthetic senses, but her willingness to open up erotically, to be ready for love, or even marriage doesn’t depend on that. Women prefer more rugged features, a personality, a certain amount of independence and being special more than some ideal image of beauty out of men’s or fashion magazines.

The character is the real magnet

Women are even more attentive about psychological and personal traits, especially when they’re concerned. Being considerate, considering their feelings, a certain amount of supremacy, so that they feel safe – all of this induces erotic sensations. It’s known that some women are influenced by social importance, power and money, as if it was some kind of male perfume or even an aphrodisiac.

A man must know how to entertain a woman, among other things. When he knows how to do that, she must feel safe with him. Then... You know the story, right? (jlp)

Usually, a woman’s love is induced by character and dependability, faithfulness and consistency, intellect and a sense of humour, attention and consideration. It need not be specially emphasised that physical strength, a fiery character and enthusiasm, passion and temperament also play a part in sexual attraction.

What do men want?

Unlike women, men pay more attention to the exterior. They’re more attracted if a woman is beautiful or at least attractive, meaning that she has a nice body and a well-proportioned face. Hair is important: most men prefer long and blonde hair. The most attractive features are female breasts.

Female breasts are a link to life. The size really doesn’t matter all that much, but the breasts per se. This is a part of body that men don’t have and that’s why this area is sacred. (jlp)

Scientific research has shown that men automatically and unconsciously look at breasts when they see a woman, only later do they look at the face. The legs and the shape of the behind play a vital role as a male erotic trigger as well. This enables a woman to awaken sexual desire and erotic sensations. In a partnership, these female attributes can make the feelings more intense in time. That’s why women shouldn’t hide them. With the appropriate clothing, they can accentuate them and make them even more appealing.

Love is blind – long-term

But relationships based on mostly or strictly physical attraction usually don’t work out. This happens at latest when the sexual arousal ends and the reverse reaction comes into play, in the shape of being fed up and feeling resistance to this person, if there are no emotional and spiritual connections between the partners. That’s why beautiful women are rarely happy and have to be especially careful not to choose the wrong partner.

How do the terms beautiful, rich and love go hand in hand?

Unconsciously, there is a struggle between men about who’ll get the most beautiful woman. Women don’t want for men to only get them, but they want to marry them as well. Thus a paradox forms, where the most competent, most successful, powerful and richest men have the most beautiful women, without there being any love involved.

Which gender is more self-interested when choosing a partner? History paints this picture: the male sex is the dominant one, while the female is the prestige one. Do you agree that the man chooses and the woman decides? (jlp)


Wives often know how to make their husbands think they love them, but usually the house built on mutual cheating comes crashing down one day. The consequences are known: marital spats and crises and even physical fighting and separation.

How to maintain an erotic relationship?

In a “real” relationship, these facts, used in the right measure, can maintain or even increase the appeal of a partner to the other partner. Let us also mention that hygiene, clothes and of course intimate erotic underwear are also important here. If a partner has such desires, the other should try to make them come true, unless this requires too much effort. A young person shouldn’t really need stimulants and aphrodisiacs. Up to a certain age, the source of all erotic matters is in the eyes and the body. The ability to turn someone on is therefore guaranteed on a physical level, but the head must function in such a way that it triggers a reaction.

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