Sexual Aggression

Sexual aggression is often confused with rape or sadism. With sexual aggression you can amplify your and your partners orgasm, so let us advice you on safe ways to do it.

 

 

Bandaging might sound like a sexual cliché, but it gives us a lot of passion that doesn’t just go away. (jlp)

No talk of perversion

Bandaging is the only non-prescribed sexual technique that a lot of people find exciting but are afraid to try it. It’s also a respectable means people use to enhance their sexual sensations, partly because it’s an innocent expression of sexual aggression – something that’s terribly missing from our lives, but our culture is well reserved when it comes to it, and also because of the physical effects: a slow orgasm during which you can’t move is great for anyone who’s not afraid of his/her aggressive self too much to try it.

Prevention of movement turns us on

Any obstacle to muscular and emotional activity might intensify the state of sexual arousal, according to Havelock Ellis. Fantasies of this sort are all over pornographic literature (they’re mostly wild and impossible to perform, meant only to watch and not participate), which is a substitute for people who are repressed when it comes to their aggressiveness. They have to have the illusion of rape in order to lie down and enjoy without guilt. Most of us have at least a trace of such needs and we symbolically “dominate” one another from time to time (we don’t want to offend feminists here because this is a need common to both genders).

Tied hands put us in the role of being tortured and enjoying it at the same time. This duality is hard to comprehend, but it’s also hard to resist. (jlp)

More than just a normal game

 

So-called prisoner games are played by many normal lovers who want pleasure and not substitutes and this helps them pass the time faster. It requires only a bit of studying. The first attempts can be painful. Beginners lose their way and run away and the erection is lost. Many people you wouldn’t ever think could do such things start doing this as occasional entertainment once they gain the speed and skills.

Skill comes in time

Extremely skilful bandaging really fills men who are not repressed with lots of sexual energy, no matter if they’re the active or passive ones in this operation. This is about the same as with any other trick that contains both stimulation and symbolism, namely a safely tied up sexual prisoner is sexy and turned on at the same time. When women figure out what it’s about, it’s hard to stop them.



Women supposedly look for tenderness. But you have to be aware that tenderness doesn’t have the same effect in all periods of the relationship. It can, therefore, also stifle the relationship. (jlp)

Gentle or too gentle?

If people of any gender fear aggressive symbolism, it’s very likely their concepts of tenderness are a bit too tender. They will adjust to the rules of the game longer. Some women sometimes feel the need to be dominated, while others like being the aggressors.

”The suspense factor”

The fact that we can scream in a critical moment is a special art where we translate real pain in a tied wrist to a language of ecstasy. These “fetters” enable the recipients to do something with their muscles, even though they are totally helpless when it comes to the course of events, rhythm and pace of the stimulation. Theodor Reik named the process “the suspense factor”, which is full of pleasure, of course.



Gag her wonderful mouth if you want to hear and not only see the tigress in her. (jlp)

Gag them!

Some energetic people also like to be gagged. As one lady put it: “That’s what keeps the bubbles in the champagne“. Men are especially turned on if they gag a woman. Most women will say they find this annoying, but the rape instinct is what convinces a man not to listen to her. What is more beautiful than the expression of erotic surprise on the face of a woman who is gagged and realises she has no other choice but to moan with pleasure?

 

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