Masturbate to your heart’s content

We see no reason why people in relationships should not masturbate. If you’re in the mood, play with yourself.

 

Don’t worry, masturbation is not just fun for teenagers and for people who can’t get an intimate partner.

 

Masturbation without a guilty conscience

 

We have already written some thoughtful advice on male and female masturbation on our site, which means that we want to talk a bit more generally this time. We want to explain it to you in such a way that you won’t feel any guilt and fear about the fact that you shouldn’t be doing this in your mature age and when in a serious relationship. Masturbating relaxes a person because this person has an orgasm and can go on with the things planned for the day. Especially if the partner’s not there. If the partner’s away on business or if you don’t live together, intercourse isn’t something you can do every day. There’s nothing wrong with this kind of self-gratification, especially if you’re aided by thinking of your partner or some hot photos you took together. Masturbation isn’t cheating and is a hundred times better than that. Why should you feel guilty playing with yourself and satisfying your current need for an orgasm? We see no reason for it, so our advice to you is to do it when you feel like it. Don’t believe that only teenagers and desperate people who can’t get a partner do it. This is wrong and you should forget it quickly. Everyone masturbates, some more, others less. That’s how it has always been and that’s how it will remain.

 

Don’t be embarrassed telling your partner how you masturbated and what you thought about. (jlp)

 

You can also turn your partner on by masturbating

 

Talking about what you did solo and what you thought about when you were doing it will undoubtedly arouse your partner. That’s why you shouldn’t hide it and don’t lie if he asks you if you played with yourself when he was gone. Your partner will have no reason to be angry or jealous because you were faithful and just found some time to relax. You will also turn him on if you tell him that you stimulated yourself when thinking of his cock. He can tell you that he masturbated with the idea of licking your crotch. Masturbation is good for both men and women and should know no age limitations. Of course, you shouldn’t go overboard, so that the whole thing becomes more appealing than sex. Masturbation can also be performed over the telephone or the internet. You can basically let go and use it as a part of your sexuality, especially when you’re not together and the nights are very cold.

 

A so-called dual masturbation is excellent foreplay to real intercourse.

 

Combine intercourse and masturbation

 

Masturbation is very useful as a part of foreplay. The partners can play, stroke and turn each other on before one another. The woman can rub her vagina for her man, while the man can masturbate wildly for her. Watching this will undoubtedly elevate your blood pressure and the effect will be double. The first dose of excitement will be because of the solo stimulation of your genitals, and the second because of the fact that you’ll be able to see your partner do it. You can masturbate until you reach an orgasm. You can do it simultaneously, but it’s even better if you watch first and then join in. It is known that men love watching their partners get themselves to an orgasm, especially if she uses some accessories and she’s really convincing and passionate. The same goes for women. They also don’t mind if their man plays with his penis, while they helplessly watch and wait for the sperm to squirt out. This mutual masturbation actually helps couples to completely relax during intercourse and get used to one another. They finally forget the shame and all the other things that might have held them back from relaxing completely. This may be even more true for women, who are usually a bit more shy. A woman who is capable to get to an orgasm on her own in front of her partner is undoubtedly on the right track towards excellent sexuality.

 

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