How to Counter Premature Ejaculation Problems

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How to Counter Premature Ejaculation Problems

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21.05.2010 | By: A. B.

It must have happened that you had an orgasm before the woman. Next time counter premature ejaculation with this technique.

The best way to counter premature ejaculation is a position change. (PhotoXpress)

Counter premature ejaculation before it happens

Men are stimulated by certain sexual positions more than by others. This is as clear as day, which means that they can come faster in some positions than in others. But careful – the position the man prefers isn’t necessarily the one where he’ll have the most problems trying to counter premature ejaculation. The biggest problems in this area could be presented by the position when the woman’s on top because she’s in charge then. This naturally means that she’s setting the pace, depth and wildness of penetration and the man will thus find it hard to hold his orgasm, unless he stops her by grabbing her bottom and telling her to take a break if she doesn’t want it to end. We suggest changing the position instead. You simply pull the woman off you and place her in a position which is more suitable to you, a position where you set the pace and depth of penetration. Because changing the positions in one sexual encounter makes the experience more interesting, your girl won’t complain too much, so don’t worry and change the position as soon as it’s necessary. A feeling of panic can occur only if you change the position just before her orgasm, which can even prolong her orgasm and really upset her. If you know your girl well enough and you can feel when she’s about to come, there’s no problem because you can come at the same time and you don’t have to worry about coming too soon. A few thrusts are usually enough in such a case and her orgasm will be here, even though you might already be coming yourself.

Don't just counter premature ejaculation. Prolong it once it occurs

The best position to change the position is the good old “doggy style”, where the woman is on all fours, the man is on his knees behind her and has total control of all the action. This way you can undoubtedly prolong the sexual experience. We’re convinced that even if you were near the climax when she was on top, the doggy style will give you new enthusiasm and energy and you won’t have any need to try and counter premature ejaculation. Many men also make a mistake by not knowing that they can also hold an orgasm, that they don’t have to give up and finish at the moment they feel an ejaculation coming on. They have to focus, stop a bit, calm down and slowly get used to the feeling of the vagina. When the introductory arousal, which is always great, diminishes a bit, you’re in for long pleasure, where the ejaculation will go away for so long that the woman will also be able to reach a climax.

Even the standard missionary position causes problems

Many women still prefer the standard missionary position because they like to be very close to their men during intercourse. This position also enables them constant kissing and of course pressure on the pubic bone and clitoris. But it’s exactly this that can cause men problems with holding their orgasm. They’re also aroused by the close vicinity of the woman they love. That’s why we advise that women don’t always insist on this position and that they allow their partners to switch positions when the desire arises. It’s actually more a need than a desire if the man wants to counter premature ejaculation. One solution is also if the man lifts himself above the woman a bit and leans on his own arms, so that the two hot bodies aren’t as close anymore and the woman can also naturally use her own hand and stimulate her clitoris. This way she still gets a slightly altered version of the missionary position and he gets a position where he is able to hold onto the ejaculation a bit longer. Let’s not forget that if women know when their men are trying to counter premature ejaculation, they shouldn’t additionally arouse them.