How Do Lesbians Sexually Satisfy Themselves?

How do women make do without a penis?

 

Lesbians take a lot of time for each other. (jlp)

 

Penetration isn't everything (far from it)

 

The general opinion that a woman can only be satisfied by penetration is a big misconception. If we give a little thought and use the knowledge of the female anatomy, we quickly realize the extent of this mistake, and this is also demonstrated quite clearly by lesbians. The female vagina has a relatively small number of neurons, making it highly unlikely to reach an orgasm solely by this route. Moreover, a woman’s body has numerous erogenous zones. Among the best known are breasts (especially nipples), the neck, ears, lips, and the clitoris. Among the less well known zones are the palms, fingertips, the inner side of the elbow, the inner knee and thigh area, as well as the lower part of the stomach.

 

Women know how to appreciate kissing and caressing. (jlp)

 

Desire, arousal, orgasm

 

A person’s sexual responsiveness goes through different phases. The following are the phases of a woman’s way to an orgasm:

- Desire for sexual intercourse.

- Arousal, brought on by mental or physical stimulation (kissing, fondling). An indicator of a woman’s arousal are hard, erect nipples (a brief interruption is needed at this point – hard nipples do not always signify arousal, as women can simply be cold), the erection of the clitoris, which hardens, and the labia swell up. In the next phase, the external sexual organs start to change color because a substantial amount of blood runs into them. Glands around the vagina start to produce a natural lubricant. The pace of the heart quickens and the breathing becomes faster; blood pressure rises. This phase is usually the longest for a woman. It can last from a few seconds to a few minutes. It depends on foreplay, on the skills of her partner and also on the phase of the menstrual cycle as well as her hormonal balance.

- A woman’s orgasm can last from three to 25 seconds and is accompanied by a slightly dimmed state of consciousness. The heart rate can jump up to 160 beats per minute.

- In the last phase, the blood runs out of the outer sexual organs. If an orgasm occurs, this last phase is pretty quick. It is synonymous with the feeling of relaxation and a sense of well-being. If an orgasm doesn't occur, this phase can last up to 6 hours and quite unpleasant sensations may occur. The blood does not run out and this can cause a feeling of discomfort.

 

Female breasts are a very sensitive erogenous zone.

 

It's important that a woman knows her partner well

 

Naturally, it is most important to know your partner. I cannot stress this enough. Despite some common points we are ultimately all unique. The best way to get to know your partner is that she gives you a tour of her body. Let her masturbate in front of you; watch carefully how she does it. Of course not everything can be shown, so communication is very important. Do not be embarrassed to ask the silliest question. If nothing else, it can make you laugh.

Sometimes a woman may not know her own body that well and you as her partner are also quite inexperienced. In this case, you can still follow some general guidelines and find out together what you like and what does not do for you.

 

Women can manage perfectly well on their own, without penetration. And if they want a little bit of penetration, they can still have it. (jlp)

 

Use your tongue

 

Do not neglect kissing. Most women find kissing crucial. Be innovative; fondle her lips, lick them as if you were licking her clitoris, suck on them gently, you can also bite if you feel like it. Kissing should not end simply with sucking on the tongue.

Sliding your nipples over her body can be as pleasant for you as it can be for her. If you moisten the nipples, so much the better. Rub against each other. Press your bodies next to each other so you will be able to feel every inch of them.

 

Never forget to touch her a lot

 

Caress her, especially her erogenous zones, the lower part of her stomach or the inner thighs. Touching her a lot serves as a body massage which causes the blood to run and makes you ready for the climax. Fondling the inner thighs has a special allure. It carries the promise that you are about to tackle the clitoris.

 

Watch her masturbate to learn what brings her pleasure, because ultimately we are all quite unique.

 

Touching the breasts and the rubbing of the pubic area are highly welcome, and you can make her reach an orgasm by stimulating her clitoris with your fingers, the mouth, the tongue. The clitoris is very sensitive, so many women do not like a direct assault on it and it is much more recommendable to use your tongue because it is softer and its touch is gentler. Do not limit yourself only to the clit, the labia are happy to respond to some fondling as well. You can also bite on them gently. Be careful while doing this of course, unless your partner likes a stronger grip. Apart from the tongue you can also offer her a finger or two. She will most probably respond in a favourable way. Or circle around her vagina with your tongue and dip into it from time to time ...

If you want to provide oral satisfaction, you may not succeed in the first attempt and you will need some practice, because you need to coordinate the tongue, the fingers as well as breathing.

Intercourse of lesbians is not all anointment, of course, it can be wild action, too. Apart from what nature has given you, you also have different accessories at your disposal. Sex shops offer a wide range of such products. If you cannot find what you are looking for there, the Internet will guide you to your desired sex toy.

In spite of all the instructions and advice, the most important factors are knowing your partner and taking your time; the time you take to get to know her and the time you truly dedicate yourself to her.

 

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