Awaken the forgotten erogenous zones

1.07.2009 | By: Sašo Stojanov

Erogenous zones can be divided into familiar and less familiar ones. Don’t forget the less familiar ones!

 

 

Erogenous zones are sometimes very easy to find. So don’t look to the breasts and the crotch. Pay attention to her... skin. (jlp)
Erogenous zones are sometimes very easy to find. So don’t look to the breasts and the crotch. Pay attention to her... skin. (jlp)

 

Get to work on the... skin

Skin is our primary non-genital organ – men mostly underestimate it because they are focused on the penis and the clitoris; but women pay more attention to it. Many women say that the odour and touch of skin have more to do with sexual attraction (and repulsion) than any other characteristic, even though men might not be aware of it. Stimulating the skin is one of the most important components of sex – not just the way it feels beneath fingers, but its coldness, agility and tenseness also trigger a whole variety of sexual sensations. These sensations can be made even more intense with some people by accentuating and adding other substances, especially fur, rubber, leather or tight clothing.

Sexual responsiveness to all of this is greatly underestimated. So, if you’re turned on by it, use it as much as possible. But don’t forget about plenty of gentle caresses, sliding with the fingernails and kissing all parts of the body.


Skin “wrapped” in certain materials, like leather, etc., can be especially appealing. (jlp)
Skin “wrapped” in certain materials, like leather, etc., can be especially appealing. (jlp)

Hair

Mister Freud believed that long hair on women has a soothing effect on a man and that it’s even a substitute for the phallus. The women don’t have one and supposedly even feel envy towards men because of it. A sexual game with hair is wonderful because of its qualities – you can grab it, pull it roughly and feel strong, you can touch one another with it and use it as a sexual accessory in general.


Hair is neglected, but this is unjustified. It’s also true that women don’t just allow people to make their hair greasy. Does it sound familiar? (jlp)
Hair is neglected, but this is unjustified. It’s also true that women don’t just allow people to make their hair greasy. Does it sound familiar? (jlp)



Some women are really turned on if the male body is very hairy because it’s manly (it promises unforgettable sex, as hairiness is interpreted as an animal quality and that, in turn, is associated with good sex), while others are strongly repelled by it because they, likewise, associate hairiness with animal qualities – these women are supposedly more attracted to a “pale Scandinavian type” of man. It’s all a matter of taste, of course.

 

In any case, hair is a very powerful erogenous zone. If it sounds silly, we recommend you try it out – start gently caressing your partners from the top of the head to the bottom. Change the direction, the intensity and movements. Or you can even use a very popular head scratcher. We assure you that your lover will be purring like never before and will be relaxed and susceptible to further fondling.

What about the earlobes?

The lobes are an underestimated erogenous zone, just like the skin on the back of the head – the piece of skin on the ear has a direct connection to the visceral nerves through the vagus nerve – and the neck. Just like all non-genital areas, this is also more effective with women than men. When you awaken the lobes (gently with fingers or by sucking, during foreplay and before an orgasm), you can trigger a perfect climax just by fondling the lobes. Some women don’t like panting and they cool off when they hear such sounds, so it’s good to observe the response of your partner.


Moistening and sucking the area of the ear tickles some women, so don’t rush into getting to work there. (jlp)
Moistening and sucking the area of the ear tickles some women, so don’t rush into getting to work there. (jlp)


Earrings turn on!

Heavy earrings are helpful and can be a source of subliminal erotic arousal, especially if they’re long enough to slide down the neck when a woman turns her head – this is the function of eastern and Spanish candelabra earrings. The differences in reactions of the genders can very likely be explained with the infrequent use of earrings in male fashion everywhere in the world.


Heavy, metal earrings supposedly turn both him and her on. (jlp)
Heavy, metal earrings supposedly turn both him and her on. (jlp)



Oscillating weights therefore function as erotic stimulants which sexually awaken certain zones. This doesn’t apply only to the area of the ears. If the earrings can be clipped on, take them off and gently try them on her nipples, labia and clitoris – but, of course, ask her in advance!



 

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