Anal intercourse fears

22.04.2009 |

By: Izabela M

This time we are getting rid of taboos about anal intercourse. Many do not even consider doing it in their fantasies, let alone wanting to do it for real.


Allow anal intercourse to become a popular sexual practice in your life.

Allow anal intercourse to become a popular sexual practice in your life.

 

Infection

The biggest fear connected to anal intercourse is the fear of becoming infected. This goes for both men and women. Before attempting anal intercourse without a condom, it is extremely important to take care of the appropriate hygiene and you need to know your partner well. Simply washing with water is not enough. Use soap as well, preferably antibacterial, with a pH value of 5.5 or a cleansing gel, made especially for the intimate parts of your body. If you plan to combine anal intercourse with vaginal, it is highly recommendable to wash the penis thoroughly or wipe it in a cleansing tissue before penetrating the vagina. It is even better to put on a condom if you did not use one earlier.


The fear of infection can be dissipated by appropriate hygienic accessories. (jlp)

The fear of infection can be dissipated by appropriate hygienic accessories. (jlp)

 

Mother Nature did not intend it to be used for that

Women (and men) often feel reluctance when thinking about anal intercourse simply because of the opinion that this cavity is not intended for sexual activities. Its purpose is primarily for digestion and because of this couples fear that something unpleasant may happen if they try to mess with it sexually. Something might happen that would ruin the mood. But there is a solution for that as well. If thinking in this way is keeping you from trying anal intercourse, you can go to the nearest pharmacy and get yourself an enema. You can get the kind with a narrow tube attached or the one shaped like a candle. People who use it say that it does not hurt at all. An enema is very popular and almost obligatory with women involved in the porno industry as well.



Do not forget about the appropriate soap, lubricant and cleansing tissues.

Do not forget about the appropriate soap, lubricant and cleansing tissues.

 

The pain is greater than the pleasure

A big inhibitor in people trying anal intercourse is also the fear of pain. Some unsuccessful attempts probably also contribute to this. The anus is of course much narrower than the penis, but it is flexible and therefore a gentle penetration by the penis is possible if you use lubricant. The lubricant should be oil-based, or greasy when to the touch and not sticky or sweet. The penetration should be slow, gentle and unobtrusive. To make the first experience a bit less stressful, you can use a plug instead of a penis. You can buy such a plug in any erotic shop.


A plug is a great accessory for your first experiences with anal intercourse.

A plug is a great accessory for your first experiences with anal intercourse.

 

”Why should only he enjoy himself?”

A common question (or statement) that women make when talking about anal intercourse is ”Why should only he enjoy himself?”. When all the prejudice and drawbacks are gone, women realize that their anal cavity has many more nerve endings than their vagina and that anal intercourse can bring them tremendous pleasure, if they only know how to relax and enjoy it.

If you are tempted by anal intercourse but are afraid to try it, try to get rid of your fears first. There is a solution for every type of fear and the solution to this problem will bring you immense pleasure.

 

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