Exclusive Interview: Swinging has completely changed our lives

Exclusively for our readers, we interviewed a couple who practices swinging regularly and revealed some hot swingers’ secrets!

 

Rok and Tanya are convinced that swinging is - a way of life. (jlp)

 

Let’s get straight to the point, ok? Tell me, why, for heavens’ sake, did you take up swinging?

Well, this simply turns us on, we both hugely enjoy meeting new people, experiencing new sex adventures – it enriches our lives. Swinging is not meant to be a fad for show-offs, it is a way of life we recommend to all couples who feel their lives together have become boring.It enriches your lives? Can’t you find a more normal way to do that?Oh, come on, don’t be so narrow-minded and conservative, this is the 21st century! Swinging fills you with energy, with lust for life; it provides you with unforgettable experiences. It has completely changed our lives; before we tried it, we’d been a dead boring couple!So the couples who aren’t involved in swinging can’t enjoy a varied and exciting sex life?Well, they may, but certainly not that exciting! Let me stress once again that swinging’s not about wild and uncontrolled sex, it’s a social activity, meeting, entertaining and partying with different people that in the end turns into having sex with these people.

 

According to our interviewees, jealousy is for the weak and for couples who lack self-confidence. (jlp)

 

Do you take any precautions against STDs?

Usually, we use condoms and recently we’ve only been meeting with people whom we know well enough to feel safe with.

You usually use condoms? Does that mean you practiced unprotected sex at some point in your lives?

Well, young man, you only live once. One can die in a million different ways and situations every single day, so why be so afraid specifically and only of STDs? I guess our roads, with so many crazy nuts out there, are way more dangerous that our beds.

Our readers are, no doubt, very curious about the jealousy factor. Doesn’t Rok mind his wife having and enjoying sex with another man? And how does Tanya feel about watching her husband screaming with pleasure on top of another woman?

Jealousy is for weak people, for those who cheat on their partners in secret. In this respect, swinger couples are completely fair, because you know exactly who your partner is with and what s/he is doing with him/her. But, no, if I were a jealous person, I would certainly not get involved in such activities.

Rok doesn't mind his wife experiencing wild orgasms with other men. (jlp)

 

Was it any different at the beginning when you just got started and weren’t used to these feelings?

Well, Tanya was a little upset the first time as far as I remember: her partner was a sort of stout old man while my partner was an attractive young lady. But she gradually got used to that as she found that the situation was reversed the next time - this is how it goes among swinger couples.

Rok, you’ve never been jealous watching your wife getting great sexual satisfaction from a god-like young man who could make her come a thousand times more intensively than you?

Why should I? I want her to be happy, to enjoy her life. This is the purpose of swinging and I really don’t mind that. She loves me, her heart belongs to me and that is the most important thing. If she experiences better orgasms with someone else, it doesn’t mean she’ll go and marry him. She’ll still be mine and mine only. Such questions usually bother usual couples who are  drowning  in jealousy and lack self-confidence. Swinger couples are a lot more relaxed and see these things from a different perspective.

Why did you decide for swinging anyway?

Rok’s friend gave the idea, we tried it and it worked out well. We had some second thoughts when our daughter was born, but we’ve learnt to hide it well.

Aren’t you afraid that people may eventually find out about your unusual sex life?

No, not really, because all of the couples involved are in a way bound not to speak about it. Everybody knows this could be damaging to them at work and among their relatives. No one would rat on us because this would mean exposing themselves as well.

What about the lady who spoke about swinging in The Moment of Truth  reality show?

She shouldn’t have made such a huge mistake, because she involved her son in the whole thing as well and he felt very negative about it. These things are better kept secrets.

 

A friend once proposed them to try swinging and they eventually realized that this is what they wanted to do for the rest of their lives. (jlp)

But isn’t that a little weird, speaking of swinging as a way of life on the one hand but hiding it as if it didn’t exist on the other?

Well, you got us there. We feel a bit angry about it, but we are completely powerless here, because we still put our daughter’s safety first. The environment we live in is unfortunately too conservative to accept parents who swing, and as long as this doesn’t change we’ll enjoy ourselves in secret and won’t talk about it openly.


So, when’s your next swinging event? And what was your craziest and most exciting experience in swinging ever?

At the beginning of September, we are going to a huge swinging party abroad, where everything is organized on a strictly professional level and we are prepared to pay for it without regrets. And the chances of anyone knowing you are very slim. The craziest thing, hmmm, let me think … Once, Tanya had sex with two men and I had to deal with the  partner of one of them, a woman who was about to have a nervous breakdown because she was so overwhelmed with jealousy …

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