Can every woman reach the vaginal orgasm?

Every woman can reach the clitoral orgasm except rare exceptions. What about the vaginal orgasm?

 

Orgasm: so obvious by external signs, yet so mysterious on the inside. (jlp)

 

Dilemma about vaginal and clitoral orgasms

 

Many experts still doubt whether women achieve the clitoral or vaginal orgasm. Women who show interest in the clitoris definitely won’t experience the pleasure of the vaginal orgasm as long as they’re virgins. Namely, the nature of masturbation confirms the belief that an orgasm is, in principle, clitoral by nature. Except rare exceptions, every woman can reach the clitoral orgasm with proper stimulation.

Considering that all women can achieve the clitoral orgasm, it’s unreasonable to classify them into two groups: women who reach the clitoral orgasm and those who reach the vaginal orgasm.

 

G-spot has changed the way of thinking

Some women, who can achieve the clitoral orgasm, are unable to experience the vaginal orgasm. The results of a study showed that many women never reached the vaginal orgasm. However, it’s impossible to determine whether they would reach it with other partners. Ever since the existence of the G-spot, experts believe that the so-called vaginal orgasm is probably an orgasm related to the stimulation of the G-spot.

It’s already been said that all women can achieve the clitoral orgasm. But what do we know about the possibility of reaching an orgasm in women who had the clitoris removed in a ritual? It seems that some of those women experience a pure vaginal orgasm. Some of them, however, can also experience the clitoral orgasm by stimulating scars on the spot of the clitoris.

 

Orgasm that doesn’t happen can be a rather unpleasant matter. Some women, however, find the meaning of sex despite the absence of orgasm. (jlp)

 

How do women experience the inability to reach an orgasm?

We stress again that these are pathological cases. Every woman can reach the clitoral orgasm. If she is unable to reach it, either because her partner stimulates her incorrectly or she doesn’t want to stimulate herself, she’ll be irritated and tense after intercourse, which develops into a major disorder after a longer period affecting both partners in the relationship.


However, all women don’t consider orgasm equally. Owing to tendencies to sentimentalism, they prefer caressing and tenderness as opposed to actions that have a pure sexual value. They enjoy sex and don’t try to achieve an orgasm at all costs. Sometimes thy even simulate it to satisfy their partners.

Such situations, which can be tolerated at the beginning of a relationship, become the source of misunderstanding after a month or year. For this reason, it’s best if both partners learn in sex life and discover new possibilities to solve problems.

 

Are simultaneous orgasms a condition for satisfying sex life?

 

There’s no doubt that simultaneous orgasms increase pleasure, and every couple should try to achieve them. This, however, requires that a man holds back longer and postpones an orgasm until the moment his partner achieves her orgasm. On the other hand, a woman can shorten her phase and adjust it to her partner. It’s obvious that such simultaneousness, which couples normally try to achieve, places considerable strain on both partners, but any sort of strain reduces the ability to concentrate on one’s own pleasure.

 

Simultaneous orgasms require a somewhat more prudent approach to sex. (jlp)


For this reason, many couples relax from time to time and focus on one’s own pleasure without trying to achieve simultaneous orgasms. It helps if you use the techniques of fellatio and cunnilingus and prolong them to an orgasm itself.

 

Physiological and psychological differences between the sexes should be taken into consideration

It isn’t enough to be aware of them. You have to recognise them in order to make changes to certain things. You’re wrong if you think that:

 

- men who cannot reach orgasms don’t exit;

- men know only one type of orgasms, while women know three types: simultaneous  or successive: clitoris, vagina, G-spot,

- men can experience very short orgasms, while women never do.

There’s another difference between men and women on the psychological level: a woman is an object of desire for a man and she’s aware of that. This rarely happens to men, only in exceptional cases. Owing to that, men and women sometimes ask themselves “who offers pleasure to whom”.

 

 

What does that mean? When a woman caresses a man, she knows that she’s doing it because of his pleasure. When a man stimulates and caresses a woman, she can think that he’s doing it because of her pleasure. However, she can also think that he’s doing it because of his pleasure. If the latter prevails, a woman can think that she’s only an “object” to him. This can cause disagreements and misunderstanding between the partners.

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